tiring summer
Hi folks , hows it going!
I just remembered i got a blog to update =P
Thanks for all the comments i received so far =) its very encouraging =D
anyways folks , summer been really really tiring at the same time it could be fun
Before going on with my life
I just wanna say thanks to my parents for supporting me in studying here
and a group of really great friends who never fails to brighten my life
THanks people i really appreciate it …
ANyway , summer class has been a hell of a crazy
Tons of projects which need ot be finish in 8 weeks T0T
6 buisnesslaw projects + 1 super bring financial analysis on arcelor mittal
Hope i can make it through =< aiming for a 4.0
how i wish i can split myself in two..sigh..
ANyway summer here been crazy
at first i attended the American independence day
Then went canoing in Washington lake and tons of really funny things happens =)
ANyway folks , i know some people may feel that , why am i being born so stupid or useless or skilless..and
why some people are born smart or intelligence…
PLs dun be dishearten you skills that no people had !! serious , look deeper into yourself .
I wanna talk about one of my friend , u guys shud know him o.O
i known him since sec 1
he was such a innocent guy , until i came in to his life and distort his mindset with lust =P
He was a really hardworking kid , always does his homework , holiday assignment and willing to help his friends.
we became very good friends , always hanging out together , messing with each other ,2 years gone by so fast..
It was in secondary 3N , He and i was in different class , only manage to meet with each other during Chinese lesson . We still hang out quite often , but not as often as during Sec 1 or 2N .
Well at last we were going for the O levels.. he was always weak in maths and really really tried really hard on it . During the O’s he was studying like mad , when i look at myself whom had tuition to help me out and i don’t have to worry about finance was just relaxing everyday trying to after the girl i like -.-’ . My good friend whom never had tuition and never financially healthy and always had a single parent was always studying so hard , put in 200% for every 1% of effort i put in. At last when the result was announced , he didn’t really get the points he wanted and didn’t manage to get into the Poly he wanted as for bastards like me have the option to get to a poly.
But when i look at present times , when i look at him , i respected him . He may not have the luck for studies , but his way way way way more better than i am . He was a super emotional intelligence [EQ] genius . His able to handle any kind of people , be it impatient or immature . Having the ability to adapt into any kind of situation and environment . The ability to mix and match with any kind of people and also being able to work efficiently work in groups . His wealth and knowledge of the unwritten textbook( a textbook of life) far exceeds me. When i look into his future , this ability of his would greatly alleviate him to a greater heights.
When u work in a place , its not ur education or how much u know about calculus or biology that would get you your pay .But ur productivity and ability to work efficiently with other people .The ability to lead . The ability to analyze and make sound decision . The ability to present yourself in public . and theres alot more
This are some of the things that the school would never teach you. But he had mastered them well . These stuff are not like ABCs which can be learn easily . It takes years , month of trials and errors to learn . A company doesn’t need a worker who can’t even communicate or work efficiently in groups. These skills are called people skills , the ability to adapt , learn and handle people .
So people out there who keep thinking that they dosen’t do well in school means they are useless , no u aren’t ! This world doesn’t work by IQ but EQ!!! SOme people may be studying in RI , but if they can’t even work in groups that may include diverse cultures then work with them , then they arent worth anything..
so yeah =) train ur EQ skills ! get some books , read it up , learn it or u may want to contact my”friend” he’ll teach u =) just tell me =)
weedvselite said
i need to keep my friend’s identity anonymous =)